Couples therapy for LGBTQ+ couples – a safe space for real connection
- Marleen
- Apr 29
- 2 min read
Relationships need space for diversity
Relationships are as diverse as the people who live them. As a couples therapist, it's my primary concern to provide LGBTQ+ couples with respectful and competent support. For me, this means not only openness, but also genuine listening, mindful language, and a willingness to continuously develop myself.
In my practice, you'll find a safe space where you can express yourself as you are. Without stereotypes or prejudices. Your issues are the focus, not societal expectations.
LGBTQ+ couples bring their own experiences
Many LGBTQ+ couples experience experiences that cisgender heterosexual couples don't, or only marginally, know about. These include invisibility, external attributions, family tensions, or structural discrimination. These experiences sometimes also affect the relationship.
In couples therapy, it's important to me to consider these backgrounds. Not as a problem, but as part of your life's reality.
Mindfulness begins with language
Language creates reality. Therefore, in my work, I pay careful attention to words that encompass identities and forms of relationships. I ask for pronouns, use gender-sensitive terms, and am open to feedback if a formulation doesn't seem appropriate.
For me, sensitivity doesn't mean knowing everything. It means being attentive, asking questions, and learning. I regularly continue my education to better understand queer life realities and to be able to support you respectfully and professionally.
Every relationship is unique
Whether you're a lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans*, non-binary, or other queer couple, your relationship is unique. That's why I don't follow a set schedule; I work individually. You bring what's on your mind. I'll support you with whatever's helpful at the time.
I work with a diverse therapeutic toolbox. This includes emotion-focused methods, solution-focused work, the Imago Dialogue, and elements of the Gottman Method. Which of these I use depends on your dynamics and needs.
A safe space for you as a couple
Many queer couples experience for the first time in couples therapy that they don't have to justify or explain themselves. They can simply be there as a couple, with whatever concerns you.
I support LGBTQ+ couples with sensitivity and professional expertise. If you feel like you're interested in couples therapy and are considering whether it might be a good fit for you, please contact me for a free initial consultation.
